One of the things that men and women have in common is the absolute need to be
loved and to love in return. Emotional intimacy, a joining together of the
spirit rather than the flesh, is how this love is conceived. Every human being
depends on this process - and it isn't a process at all - that makes it sound
too mechanical; there's too much chemistry and magic involved. Anyway, every
human being depends on a certain amount of emotional intimacy to maintain
balance and happiness and just to survive from day to day.
In the same way, there are things we need to avoid
in an online relationship. If we don't they can easily destroy our chances at
finding love online. Here are 3 Internet dating tips for women.
Besides,
women tend to get a little bit better over the age of 40, don't they? So, you
want to meet a great guy and you probably don't want to put up with any of the
drama or the games that went around when you were a bit younger. Are there any
tips that you should know about if you are dating over the age of
40?
Don't be afraid to get a little bit naughty when it comes to flirting
with a guy. Just remember that there is a definite line between classy and
trashy when you are flirting with a guy. You don't want him to think that he's
going to get you in bed, you want him to want to work hard at figuring you out.
Being provocative with a man is a sure way to entice him and make him want
YOU.
1) Get to know the person you're considering going on a date with
online first. The more you know about him the better you can feel about meeting
him in person. The odds are good that he is exactly who he says he is but it's
better to be safe and take all the necessary precautions than find the one nut
job on the site. The rigorous screening processes of some of the more in depth
match making or dating services has a tendency to rule out some of the more
questionable characters but vigilance is still highly recommended.
To
some, this may be a quite humorous technique for ways to reject a guy. Others
may find it a bit offensive. If you are accepting to the idea, being a lesbian
will definitely send guys over to the next available woman. This tip does not
always work. More people have an open mind and various sexual preferences these
days.
You have probably heard this before and you will again now. It is
important to be yourself when on a date. Don't try impressing your date with an
outrageous personality if it's not who you are. If you think you are going to
hold his interest this way, then you're wrong. You will only be playing a role
that is bound to expire in the near future.
You might think you are
flattering his ego by agreeing with everything he says, but having no opinions
at all of your own will eventually make the date rather boring for the both of
you. Don't be afraid to show a little personality, joke around, and most
importantly, be yourself. Don't be overly argumentative, but don't be an
opinion-less doormat. A lively and intelligent conversation where a woman can
hold her own ground on a topic can be quite a turn on for a man.