I've spend months intensively testing profile text, sending women thousands of emails and going through hundreds of dating tips for women over 40 sites. This system has been tried and tested and known to produce excellent results.
Once you are satisfied that this lovely Chinese Lady is sincere and true, which is already about 99% likely as opposed to the 50/50 chance you stand in any bar in the world, then spend the rest of your trip enjoying intimate moments (or days), meeting family and friends and absorbing Chinese Culture. If you are satisfied that this is the person, these are the people, and this is the culture that you are ready to commit to, then our job is done - you are safely on your way to making your dreams a reality.
Place your own ad. If you were intimidated by the amount of younger posters compared to ones from women your own age, then consider that you might not be the only one. By making the first move, you will likely get responses from many women who will probably confide that they were too shy to post their own ad.
Tips 1-4 will help you write your online dating profile. But don't write it and then publish it straight away. Write a draft or two and allow 24 hours between each version. The final version will be much, much better, guaranteed! Do check spelling and punctuation - most word processing software will do this for you; then cut and paste the final version into the box on the profile.
Once you've found someone you'd like to get to know better, send her a short email. Women are busy; they don't have time to read a four page email from you. Keep it short and sweet.
If someone was to ask me to give them my number one dating tips for woman over 40 this would be it. If you want to be in a relationship (a happy one) you need to open your mind and let love in. Focusing on only the qualities you must have in someone. That is the secret. Once I focused on just the important qualities- everything fell into place. I focused on the type of person I wanted, honest, caring, family man, etc. When you find a man with all or most of the important qualities you are looking for all the other things don't matter. Trust me- at least try it for a while and see what happens. You could finally have the man and the life you have been looking for!!!!